From Baby Blues to Brighter Days: Tips for Maternal Self-Care

From Baby Blues to Brighter Days: Tips for Maternal Self-Care

Becoming a mother is a joyous and transformative experience. However, it is not uncommon for new moms to face challenges that can impact their mental well-being. Maternal mental health, encompassing both baby blues and postpartum depression (PPD), is a topic that deserves our attention and support. In this article, we will delve into the causes, signs, and treatment options for these conditions, as well as provide tips for self-care and building a strong support system. Let's explore how we can nurture the mental health of new mothers and help them navigate this beautiful yet challenging journey.


Understanding Baby Blues

Approximately 60-80% of new moms experience baby blues, a temporary condition that typically resolves on its own within two weeks postpartum. The symptoms can start 2 to 3 days after the baby is born, and the duration can vary from person to person. Baby blues are often triggered by hormonal fluctuations, as well as the physical and emotional adjustments that come with motherhood. During this period, mothers may feel sadness, moodiness, and irritability. However, with proper support and self-care, baby blues can be managed effectively.

 Journey to Postpartum

The Journey to Postpartum Depression (PPD)

While baby blues are a common occurrence, postpartum depression (PPD) is a more prolonged and intense experience that affects approximately one in five mothers. Studies have found this number to be higher in low-income countries like Southern Africa where there is a prevalence of 39.96%.

Unlike baby blues, PPD requires medical intervention and professional support. The symptoms of PPD include intense feelings of anger, irritability, sadness, crying, hopelessness, and despair. Changes in appetite and sleeping patterns, as well as a loss of interest in activities once enjoyed, are also common indicators. It is crucial to recognize the signs of PPD and seek help promptly to prevent further complications.


Causes of PPD

Understanding the causes of PPD can help us develop effective prevention strategies. While the exact cause of PPD is not known, several factors can contribute to its development. These include a family history of mental health issues, biological predisposition, environmental factors such as poverty, a lack of social support, and teenage pregnancy. By addressing these risk factors and providing early intervention, we can reduce the incidence of PPD and promote the well-being of new mothers.

 Circle of Support

The Importance of a Circle of Support

A mother's circle of support plays a vital role in alleviating feelings of isolation and overwhelm, preventing and managing PPD. Loved ones, particularly partners, can provide emotional support and actively engage in the well-being of the mother. By asking the mother how she is doing and offering practical assistance, loved ones can create an environment of care and understanding. Additionally, building a circle of support beyond the immediate family, including friends, healthcare professionals, therapists, and community groups, can provide the necessary resources and guidance.

How Loved Ones Can Help

Loved ones can actively contribute to a mother's well-being by taking specific actions:

  1. Cultivate strong relationships and emotional support: Ask the Mom "how are you" not just the baby. Family members & friends can provide a listening ear, offer empathy, and validate the new mom's feelings. By acknowledging and validating the mother's emotions and experiences, we can create a safe space for open communication.
  2. Be proactive and initiate support: Taking the initiative to offer help and support can relieve the burden on the mother and demonstrate a genuine commitment to her well-being. Loved ones can remind the new mom to prioritize self-care activities, such as getting enough sleep, eating well, and engaging in activities she enjoys. We can encourage the new mom to seek professional help and offer to assist with finding resources, making appointments, or accompanying her to therapy sessions.
  3. Determine the kind of help she needs: Each mother's needs are unique. Loved ones can assist with household chores, cooking, childcare responsibilities, allowing the new mom to rest and recover. We might also offer to clean the home, babysit for the day, take them out for a meal / snack / dessert, and bring them for a pampering spree. By understanding what support is required, we can provide targeted assistance.
  4. Cultivate strong relationships and emotional support: Nurturing a strong bond between loved ones and the mother can foster a sense of security and trust, encouraging open discussion about mental health concerns.
  5. Educate ourselves and raise awareness: Loved ones can educate themselves about PPD, its symptoms, and risk factors. By being informed, we can recognize the signs of PPD early on and encourage the new mom to seek professional help if needed.

Creating Circle of Support

Creating a Circle of Support

Building a diverse circle of support can provide mothers with the resources and guidance needed to navigate the challenges of motherhood. This circle can be categorized into three layers:

  1. Inner Circle: This includes individuals who are the first lifeline for the mother. It could be a parent, partner, or best friend. These individuals should be trusted confidants who offer unwavering support and understanding.
  2. Middle Circle: Friends, healthcare professionals, therapists, and psychologists form the middle circle. They provide specialized support, guidance, and professional expertise.
  3. Outer Circle: Community groups, church organizations, and peer support groups make up the outer circle. These groups offer a sense of camaraderie, shared experiences, and practical assistance.


The Power of Prevention: PPD Prevention Toolkit

Prevention is key to addressing maternal mental health. By equipping new mothers with the necessary tools and support, we can reduce the risk of PPD. Here are essential components of a PPD prevention toolkit:

Find a Therapist Before Giving Birth

Seeking therapy even before giving birth can be proactive and beneficial. A therapist can provide guidance, coping strategies, and emotional support during the transition into motherhood. By establishing a therapeutic relationship early on, new mothers can better navigate the challenges that lie ahead.

Understand Risk Factors

Educating new mothers about the risk factors associated with PPD is crucial. By understanding these factors, mothers can take necessary precautions and be vigilant about their mental well-being. Awareness empowers mothers to seek help at the earliest signs of distress.

Build a Support System

Encouraging new mothers to build a robust support system is essential. This includes engaging with family members, friends, and support groups who can provide emotional support and practical assistance. A strong support system can help alleviate stress and provide a sense of belonging, reducing the likelihood of developing PPD.

 Support for Maternal Mental Health

Additional Support for Maternal Mental Health

At Lily of the Valley, we understand the importance of supporting maternal mental health. That's why we have partnered with Beacon, where we can access a network of mental health professionals and services. Through this partnership, we provide our community with access to Beacon's comprehensive mental health services, including therapy sessions tailored to the unique needs of new mothers. To avail of this support, use the code LOV15 for a 15% discount on mental health and breastfeeding consultations.

Here are Beacon’s support channels:

📞 Join the "Beacon Moms" on Telegram
📞 Book one of their mental health professionals through
📞 Take the PPD quiz

You can also watch our IG Live video to learn from our discussion.


The Journey to Brighter Days

Maternal mental health is a significant aspect of a new mother's well-being. By understanding the causes, signs, and treatment options for baby blues and PPD, we can provide the necessary support and resources to nurture their mental health. Building a strong circle of support, implementing prevention strategies, and accessing professional help when needed are crucial steps in ensuring the well-being of new mothers. Let us all join hands to create a nurturing environment where every mother feels supported, understood, and empowered on their journey to brighter days.

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Camille R. Escudero
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